Poligami itu hanya Indah ketika ia belum Bermula.

Bila ada org raise up isu poligami di FB ke or dlm borak-borak kosong sambil minum teh tu. Mama teringat kata-kata Arwah Ayah semasa arwah dlm wad kat Hospital Kota Bahru. Arwah komen "sesiapa yg teringin nak berbini dua, mari jumppo ambo dulu. Ambo nok goyat toksoh la bbini lagi". Wahh...from the mouth of org yg live that life lah...and on another occassion in the same wad, arwah ada komen " Jizah lah bini yg paling baik!"..erkkkk..why all this komen masa both Bini s not around???!

On mama personal experience, the earliest and happiest memory mama ngan arwah is before he took a second wife. After that all bleak, sad and misery childhood until I escape to boarding school, then university then kahwin. Kesian adik-adik mama yg stay at home with Mek. They sufferred in silent indeed. In the nutshell, poligami is only benefitted the Man and the Favored Family. The other family will live the lives of the forgotten one, undernourished body and soul! Those comments in the wad is 2 decades too late....

The good part of this bad life experience is, ia mengajar mama tentang survival, independent, dan berusaha sendiri untuk mencapai apa jua cita-cita mama, like dtg ke Canada ni :). 

AlFatihah.

Note: Jizah is my beloved Mek.